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Sending kids or not?

by Naeema / Posted 20/02/2012 / Updated 23/04/2012

Hi All it has been a while since I have been on here. But Reunite and the parents here are always in my prayers. It has been 4 years and my eldest daughter is now in Botswana she was very unsettled here my ex didnt force her to stay with him she is with her grandparents. I was worried he would hurt her but all is ok my eldest daughter is now 16 so she cant be forced to stay against her will. Despite all this my second and third daughter want to go and I am so scared to send them to see their grandad who is ill. Firstly the youngest is 11 and the middle one is 13. They are more defensive of their dad unlike my eldest daughter who is there.He has threatened to keep them there in the past but now his family say they will convince him not too. My daughter who is 13 is saying she will never forgive me if anything happens to her grandad. But I dont know why even though my eldest daughter went when she was 14 and has come here twice my gut feeling says not to send them i trust the family just not my ex.

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