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by Anthea / Posted 04/03/2009 / Updated 06/03/2009

Dear All,
With help, is it possible for abducted children to one day forgive the cut off parent for the time they´ve been cut off from each other inc. all issues psychosocial, blended family etc. related to it? I´m a cut off mum. I miss & love my children but I had no choice but to back off from this case post 2004 court case. In short my ex & team is yet to comply to any legal goals. Will they get it that I’ve never abandoned them. They’ll always be my babas. It is not their fault for I to divorce their father.
Thank you. Anthea


From awatif / Posted: 05/03/2009
that´s a big question? I have asked myself the same thing over and over, and I can´t get an answer only time will tell, I know what ur going through, I feel for u. but don´t worry or despair if you get to see your children, you will be able to talk it over with them and have conselling that might help you and the children. usually children understand that it was out of your control. do you know the story of Jacqeline Pascarl read her book its about her abducted children and how she meet them after 14 years, the book is called "abducted" or check her story on you tube, it´s quite interesting it might give you answers to your questions. be strong
From Anthea / Posted: 06/03/2009
Dear awatif,
Many thanks for the reply.It helps me cope better with life while I wait for my children´s return. My son turned 18 today. Yes, I too am a fan of Jackie, Sha & Idin. I was so glad to view them on the local news & mags. Her books are on my to do list. Good luck. God speed our children love to us. Cheers, Anthea

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